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February 15, 2014 Postings here are intended to offer my understanding of wisdom, as I see it from my window. The sealing of one level is a floor of the next one and I spend my days gathering stuff to move another floor up. Sometimes I succeed. Rounding up my stuff means drawing conclusions from experiencing daily life to see what is the ego and what is the timeless, authentic me or us. The seeing gives me a freedom from being stuck on one floor, one position, freedom from being run by my ego and/or those around me. This includes embracing those stuck in the world of ego on the main floor, usually gathered in the lobby, gossiping about those living on the upper floors. They would reject you but do not do tit-for-tat, although those who reject you, would often project their rejection on you. Do not co-signed under that statement. Love them all, more those who hate you, since it’s not so easy. Just remember loving others is a permanent state of mind. It does not mean you join them in the lobby and hold their hand. It means you think kindly about them. Feel encouragement and hope, like looking at a kid, who doesn’t know how to tie his shoe laces. No pity, no patronizing. Just kindness.
September 10, 2022
I read today in the social news about someone’s story about surviving an abusive relationship. There are no abusive relationships like there is no marriage therapy there are only abusive people and only people therapy. Why is it important to make this distinction? Because it's much harder to be a victim when do you own responsibility for staying in a relationship after the first sign of the partner acting in an abusive way. We are responsible for taking part of interaction with another who is abusive toward us. You might say “if we would get out of the relationship when someone acts towards us in an abusive way, we all would be single”. I'm not saying to get out of that relationship at the first sign but to get out of interaction that became abusive. When someone is acting in an acceptable way towards us, we are obligated to protect out dignity and address at that moment that this is unacceptable, please don't do it again. If a partner will minimize, dismiss, blames you for being too sensitive or seeing things that are not there, you can see that the person is not going to change. By not understanding what is acceptable what’s unacceptable, and not apologizing for with a promise not to do it again, a partner is showing you that is not going to change, and it will happen again. That is your cue to get out of relationship. If you're not willing to do so, you are volunteering to be a victim, and frankly there are no victims only volunteers, in so many ways.
I read today in the social news about someone’s story about surviving an abusive relationship. There are no abusive relationships like there is no marriage therapy there are only abusive people and only people therapy. Why is it important to make this distinction? Because it's much harder to be a victim when do you own responsibility for staying in a relationship after the first sign of the partner acting in an abusive way. We are responsible for taking part of interaction with another who is abusive toward us. You might say “if we would get out of the relationship when someone acts towards us in an abusive way, we all would be single”. I'm not saying to get out of that relationship at the first sign but to get out of interaction that became abusive. When someone is acting in an acceptable way towards us, we are obligated to protect out dignity and address at that moment that this is unacceptable, please don't do it again. If a partner will minimize, dismiss, blames you for being too sensitive or seeing things that are not there, you can see that the person is not going to change. By not understanding what is acceptable what’s unacceptable, and not apologizing for with a promise not to do it again, a partner is showing you that is not going to change, and it will happen again. That is your cue to get out of relationship. If you're not willing to do so, you are volunteering to be a victim, and frankly there are no victims only volunteers, in so many ways.
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June 20th, 2020 When you decided to move As the time to move from this paradise of Costa Rica coming closer to my view, my appreciation of the place; this house, friends, animals, nature, country, is growing each day.It is perhaps the main reason I left my home in North Bay (in good hands!) and moved to Costa Rica. I could not force my appreciation to grow there, and I did not want to stay the same. Some people like sameness, running on yesterday’s knowledge, sticking to parent’s beliefs, relying on programs of ego; I don’t. I am with nature, nothing is permanent, but change. It is often said, as people approach the end of life, that their appreciation for life and for all what it represents, family, friends, animals, and all the nature, grows rapidly and the only thing that people regret that they didn’t live fully by this appreciation. They regret they didn’t stay close to those they loved, and they didn’t express enough the love in words and deeds. Maybe if you learn to appreciate your partner a bit more every day, things might feel like new, while you are still living in the same house you lived for 50 years.It perhaps well explains my dislike of the idea to commit to a chosen partner for life, no matter what. Learning to appreciate your partner a bit more every day feels like learning to live with a lie to myself. The growth is to learn to become more and more loving, and that also means knowing what love is, and what is not. You can not appreciate destruction, darkness, selfishness of ego or being used...Like you cannot “unsee” you cannot “unknow”. Yes, you learn to accept and tolerate, but you are not truthful. You just traded your truth for having a partner.Why? Were told that’s the best way? People believe in things that “ain’t so”...Or were you scared?
How much of life you stopped living and appreciating, because you had no courage to move forward?As for me, I am moving!
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July 17, 2015
Love your body? Concept of loving your body, as many concepts of social and personal positioning, is ridden with ego confusion. 1. Perceiving physical body as your main identity, by far the most important, or often the only identity, that is slams the door on spiritual explorations. Stemming from materialistic view of life and Darwinian Theory of origin of humanity, which gave social power to pharmaceutical industry, the physicians, and body care industry. Perception of the physical body as the main human identity is perhaps the most dispowering and wasteful life philosophies, yet successfully sold to around the world.Even though a percentage of people who believe in a higher power ranges from 85% worldwide and 95% in North America, the lack of daily self-reflection and simply “laziness of thought” pushes people towards following untruths. And with that giving time and energy, which is life, to support, some dark, irreverent force of the Universe. The same force that creates atrocities in one part of the world, will convince you to give up power over your life to your physician. 2. Treating your body as a separate identity. Your body is not your pet, or your old car in a junkyard. Looking after your body is not a full time job, a chore that you resent, nor is a responsibility you can take it or leave it. Your body is your co-creation to access and experience life energy. It is designed for an optimal opportunity to increase your presence of the timeless you forever. Beyond time. 3. Taking care of your body as the only self-care. There are many bodies of your being and we can generally split into basic three: Causal - timeless you, Authentic identity, Subtle - energetic, field in and around you and Gross – your physical body.Looking only after your physical body will leave you inevitably disappointed. It will get sick or damaged, or age and die. Distribute your time and energy wisely in proportions Causal / Subtle / Gross to 50 / 25 / 25. Your life will become authentically fulfilling.
Love your body? Concept of loving your body, as many concepts of social and personal positioning, is ridden with ego confusion. 1. Perceiving physical body as your main identity, by far the most important, or often the only identity, that is slams the door on spiritual explorations. Stemming from materialistic view of life and Darwinian Theory of origin of humanity, which gave social power to pharmaceutical industry, the physicians, and body care industry. Perception of the physical body as the main human identity is perhaps the most dispowering and wasteful life philosophies, yet successfully sold to around the world.Even though a percentage of people who believe in a higher power ranges from 85% worldwide and 95% in North America, the lack of daily self-reflection and simply “laziness of thought” pushes people towards following untruths. And with that giving time and energy, which is life, to support, some dark, irreverent force of the Universe. The same force that creates atrocities in one part of the world, will convince you to give up power over your life to your physician. 2. Treating your body as a separate identity. Your body is not your pet, or your old car in a junkyard. Looking after your body is not a full time job, a chore that you resent, nor is a responsibility you can take it or leave it. Your body is your co-creation to access and experience life energy. It is designed for an optimal opportunity to increase your presence of the timeless you forever. Beyond time. 3. Taking care of your body as the only self-care. There are many bodies of your being and we can generally split into basic three: Causal - timeless you, Authentic identity, Subtle - energetic, field in and around you and Gross – your physical body.Looking only after your physical body will leave you inevitably disappointed. It will get sick or damaged, or age and die. Distribute your time and energy wisely in proportions Causal / Subtle / Gross to 50 / 25 / 25. Your life will become authentically fulfilling.
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July 15, 2015 Equality. The love for another as a partner, although absolutely necessary, is not enough. What is also absolutely necessary, although rarely taught and understood - it’s equality.Love for your partner leading to commitment, differs from all other subjects and objects of our love and love based relationships, because only your partner requires to be your equal.You can love and have relationships with entities of all possible inequalities, including different species, but that’s not a partnership. In a relationship of unequal, somebody walks another out on their way home, and sooner or later, they have to go back where they left their path, and start walking their walk. If you do it for a brief time it's fine (I do it for living), but if you do it on daily bases for a long time, some for an entire life, you wasted your life on co-dependency.Similarities of interests, activities, cultural background, family of origin and other possible factors contributing to your self-description, are important, but secondary and do not guarantee the stability of the relationship.When you have equality and love, you have timeless base; all other factors and experiences are time-limited, transitory and changeable during life time.Now, what is the equality? The equality is a “size” of your Authentic identity versus the size of your ego, similar and comparable with another person’s ratio. Authentic identity is a timless you (an Eye of God) that is over looking your life from within/above you.How often you see your life though this Eye (I), how large is your view and most importantly, how easy is for you to navigate your life from this perspective, constitutes your size of light within you. You can compare your Authentic identity to a full moon, completely illuminated by the light of the Sun at the time of your birth, and the ego programs to a rotating and travelling Earth, that will inevitably cover some of your light, through out your entire earthly life.When you figure out how this happens in your life, you figured out life. And now you can understand the purpose of every life. We all suppose to make sure that our light not only stays untouched by the ego, but also becomes greater as we learn to generate love/light.Only then we do not dim the light of others by coming close with our ego in intimate relationship of equals.To see in self and then in others how much of each light is covered, and how much it left to shine – is your guide to equality.How do you measure this? Every being on Earth, including plants, animals, even a bacteria has a measuring stick. We all know what’s light, what’s darkness, what’s supportive of life, benign, and what’s destructive, toxic. When you meet people, look them in the eyes. Don’t wonder what they see when they look at you, don’t project your presence on the interaction, just focus on what you see, hold the gaze and search in your Ai-mind for answer.Are you impressed with the light of the other, moved by it, or you are unaffected or even disappointed with the size / intensity of the light in another?Practice this measuring and I would enjoy hearing about your results.
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April 30th, 2020"Frustrated parents in Ontario pivot from official distance-learning program amid COVID-19" a quote from today's post in the news. Are you a frustrated parent...? Since schools have been closed, there is an increasingly vocal group of parents saying Ontario's official distance-learning framework is not working for them."It was like pulling teeth trying to get him to do even small parts of the assigned work, and I was just frustrated beyond belief," said a mother, yoga teacher in Toronto."And that hour just felt like it was a complete waste of time," she said, describing her son Ben slumped in his chair, zoned out or fiddling with things, not even looking at the tablet with his school work. "I would be completely drained afterwards.... It had just sapped everything from me," she said. "Not only did it feel like a waste of time, but then I had no energy just to move through the rest of my day." "So I gave up"."Just knowing that it wasn't going to be another day of fighting and struggling and dreading that home-school portion of the day was a huge relief." What can I offer you except a swift kick in the pants?What was your interaction with your child before virus lock-down? When you heard “I am bored” from your child, what was your response? For most of “modern” (not modern enough to me!) parents it’s a call for “let’s do something!” or “I will come up with something you can do”.Let’s have some fun, right?Now…if you divide child’s life into two piles: fun and no-fun, you will have a child whose joy of living will be outside of him/her and will be related to doing, not to being. You know what was my response to I am bored - actually I repetitively explained to my three kids, before they would ever come up with ”I am bored”, so they never did - that the life in you and around you, is so vast and so interesting that being bored means you reduced yourself to no-mind, no-heart, passive, uncreative, uninteresting in life, being. And why would I support being who reduced self to something like that? Unless you would be born like that, that’s a different task, but you weren’t! You were born brilliant and beautiful! Put your energy into living and make it so interesting that you will life enthusiastically 150 years!My three children became so creative that I cry with joy when I listen and watch them! And I raised them by myself since they were babies (my son was 2 months old, and two girls were 2, and 3 years old). No I didn’t have grannies or grandpas, nor any extended family to help. Some good neighbors helped time to time.If your child is “slumped in his chair, zoned out, or fiddling with things, not even looking at the tablet with his school work” - it’s not his condition, it’s your bad parenting! Stop juggling, fighting, struggling, and dreading, because you will teach your children exactly that! And then you wonder why your son is slumped in his chair, zoned out. He learned it from you! Parent is a teacher and trainer of child’s ego and a student and guardian of child’s authentic self. You don’t know the difference?
No?Then you shouldn’t have children, because you are missing basic knowledge for raising a child. And it is now an accessible knowledge - learn.Were you raised by a parent who wanted be your best friend? Or one who was not interested in you at all? Or maybe a parent who tried methods commonly known but had no power to be consistent? This is no reason for you to be shit at it!Why for the life in me would you be “fighting and struggling and dreading” to do homework with your child?Where is your gratefulness and joy of life to make it magical? Life becomes effortless and you look like you are doing nothing at all when you take responsibility for your joy. And don’t tell me that you have lots of things to do and you are exhausted “juggling” it all.First of all you are not “juggling” anything. Get rid of the ideas and descriptions that life is soooo hard! No three pots start boiling at the same time. If you pay attention things come in a linear – time order. One… after another… after another…Just pay attention to what’s in front of you and you will have time for it all.As I said, I have three children. I worked full time in my private practice, provided exclusively for our living expenses. I studied, I moved twice countries of residence with my children. Sold and bought houses. I travelled mostly with my children and went with them to many events. I played tennis, swam regularly, entertained friend…and I was 95% on time, and if I wasn’t, it had to be a really high water. My children had music, voice, dancing, swimming, karate, and drama classes. They played volleyball, basketball, went on school trips, including international, and had parties for 50 kids at our home. They are now 38, 37, and 35. Was it hard? Maybe twice I broke down and cried from overworking. The rest of the time we had a ball! It is doable, as you see. You just have to make a decision, no matter virus or not, your child is 100% your responsibility. No excuses, whining and pushing the job on others, it is YOUR THE MOST important job in the entire life! And you better do it well. We are counting on it.
April 24, 2014 PROFESIONAL After reading yesterday’s post you must be ready for more of discoveries...Another excellent hide out spot of the ego is a label “PROFESIONAL”In the North American culture in order to “deserve” a label of a professional you have to become and stay disconnected from your true authentic self. Not to hear it’s voice, and if you do you must dismiss it.The ego program describes an every detail of your performance in your profession, from expressions word-by-word, gestures, wardrobe, gadgets, vehicles to an office and home décor. All in the hands of the ego to keep you unauthentic, disconnected and uncreative. To all fairness, that is just fine is some professions. If you are an engineer you can solve a problem with an ego, but what if you are working as a health care professional?Well... here is an appalling fact.The only healing factor is the very one that ego succeeded to eradicate – a connection between the two authentic beings. A patient, who is losing a battle with own ego (that’s why he is sick) and a healer, who wan own battle and is able to help the patient to win his, have to connect! And not as a two sets of programs and a processor, but on that authentic, god-to-god level.God within us heals. Nothing else.To eliminate the presence of god /authentic you, the source or the true care and love from the healing work, is a complete success of the darkness in this world! And a complete failure of the authentic you, to run this body and brain to truth and love!The ego uses a word “amateur” (amateur "lover of" from Old French and ultimately from Latin amator, "lover"), in a contemptuous way, indicating that love in you applied in your work and love for the people you are treating must be a compensation for an insufficient formal training. If the health care professionals use their and collective ego tricks to replace love, care and giving out of fear, their work will not only be sub-par, but all together ineffective if not toxic.And that scripted “professional’ conduct required in mental health care professions, is the very source of ineffectiveness of every single school of psychotherapy! If you have to follow a script, program, plan, and steps, you are going to focus on you and your agenda.Is that what client hopes for?Quite to contrary!Oh, you can say you can do both… well, only if you are free to do it. It means you are not religious but spiritual.You can take the knowledge from every school known to you in your profession, and use it if you find it suitable in the moment. But if you follow the method you will only be able twig here or there, but the client will still see your agenda! You are treating yourself to a rant of a session on a client’s expense, and a huge expense for that matter! Not only loss of time and money, but often loss of hope that there is someone who can help, and many time a person is left and spreading opinion that psychotherapy is bullshit, because often it is!As a psychological or social counselor, for example, you should not disclose any information about yourself, never give your address or a phone number, you should stay unfeeling and non-personal, you should apply techniques the best only behavioral advises, you should spend time creating written records longer than a treatment and disclose it to anyone, who is in title to look over your shoulder and read it. Like a clerk in an insurance company. Professional, standards, required work ethics for counselors raised and trained by the egos to be workers of the egos. God help the sick!.No wonder people come to me suspicious and doubtful. They’ve been everywhere and got the same ego.Sometimes they are surprised, sometimes they think they should get a “professional” disconnected program, not knowing that they should receive anything, but that. Most of the therapies and psycho-theories stress the importance of roles that our family of origin play in our growth and self-shaping.It is a common approach that not only recognizes but also emphasizes the pain that family of origin inevitably creates.What we focus on, steps out from an obscurity and walks into the light, to become not only visible, but to grow... and grow. This would explain why the family dynamism and drama is so huge in helping professions.Why the “not knowing what to do with your life in age 20, or even 30” is not a big issue?Because no one trains professional co-creators of oneness, wholeness without religious dogma. No schools of professional re-connectors with the timeless self. Training is in a sector of dissectors.To examine, analyze, or criticize in minute details became a model of modern science. No wonder people fall into pieces. They are perceived as pieces hardly holding together.Well... in my view, the family of origin plays roles only on the ego level.Concept that your family was a family in a different configuration in a previous incarnation is a myth for a needy ego. If that was true for one person in Patiala, Punjab, means nothing and sais nothing about you (unless you are that one person in Patiala, Punjab).Your family might not be representative of anything else, but the average of a human in a particular cultural group, that you were born toin order to become a trail blazer, not primed for your life by one single ancestor!Maybe your choices in life will be so advanced and so innovative that you will have to outgrow your family of origin.To leave them lovingly behind, to agree not to be understood and walk alone to your future without anyone holding your hand will require more courage that you ever thought you have.Maybe bond from the previous incarnations would hinder your life choices and weaken your courage, so you would chose family of no particular significance to you and others.Think about it. Really.
July 26, 2018 Culture of inquiry North American culture, based generally on British cultural conditioning normalizes a lack of interest in the life of another person by propagating the idea that if you are asking a personal question it is equal to being inappropriately intrusive, even rude. Living for 35 years in Canada I was asked countless times before any meaningful conversation “can I ask you a personal question?”, or worse “I do not want to be personal” but… Well, if you do not want to be personal you cannot have a conversation with me, because I am a person, so if you are a person, we will be creating a personal conversation, rather than sniffing each other. I do not want to be sniffed, particularly by a human, and I do not want to have a conversation with Google. What’s left is you tell me about you, and take interest in me, and I will do the same. I am sure you know that this act of a genuine interest in another human, by carrying a personal conversation, has obvious benefits to a person, and a society. I will just highlight that it opens a connection between people, which is the base for care in the time of need, and for expressions of appreciationand celebrations in the time of plenty. Conversely, reducing interest in personal life of another to an insignificant or worse, qualifying it as an inappropriate interaction between people, has hugely negative reverberations. The least negative is gossiping, and reducing conversations to an exchange of trivia. But not knowing directly from the person about his life, creates false ideas about the world of others, increases separateness, and is one of the reasons for persistence of racism and discrimination in this region.The idea of culture of inquiry was created by students, requesting to be in charge of their course of studies, accordingly to their interest. Being taught what is known and obvious became a waste of time for both, teachers and students.
I am transcribing this idea to all personal interactions.
Let’s create universal culture of “be personal”, the culture of inquiry, where knowing the person means you periodically have conversations that only you have with each other for the knowing more than a face.
February 16, 2014 Authentic welcomes all what life brings. Ego is a picky eater: either rejects or craves and chases after it.
March 3, 2014
What is Ego? There are a lot of opinions about ego.People quote a dictionary definitions of ego, like: "ego is the organized conscious meditator between the person and reality"; "ego serves to differentiate between tribal mind and individuality" and wonder what’s true?My answer is yes and no.If you think that personality is a set of programs, most of them picked by you to define your choices and experiences - the answer is YES it is a set of programs. If you think that personality is your individual mind, where self-awareness resides - the answer is NO (unless you never thought that you are more than a bunch of programs and you accepted that that's what run your life)The differentiation between tribal mind and individuality is in your authentic, timeless you, not in the programing. All the names, labels, titles, possessions, locations, say very little about you, only about your intentions what and how to experience in life.
May 10, 2014 Perception of ego is limited is divisive. Ego has a limited perspective on life and produces limited thoughts. Action born out of a limited thought breads conflict.Perception of Authentic you is complete and unlimited, that’s why it does not create separateness, it stays in all-ness. Perception of ego is limited is divisive. Ego uses thoughts and the very nature of thought is divisive.Thought gives an illusion of separateness.Authentic you does not reside in time. Thought needs time, without time there is no thought.
Authentic you does not use thoughts spread in time. It has an instant knowingness.
April 1, 2014
Ego creates sameness, addictions, habits... A repetition “layers” the energy in the same “place” and creates a density of energy that we perceive to be aversive. A lighter energy, less dense pleases us. An energy that dissolves matter, turns it back to energy is the most appealing to our Authentic mind. The soul, the record keeper rejoices when it sees a change.
April 2, 2014 Learn to seek answers in the library of wisdom. If you can not explain an observed reality by your theory you have an insufficient theory.P. W. Bridgman, a physicist (supposedly) said: “A coincidence is what you have left over when you apply a bad theory.”Why do we accept the theories that explain such a minute piece of reality that it’s utterly useless, or give explanations of a reality, or laws so complicated, that no one understands?Because the ego keeps it this way. One side is trapped in self-importance and another in self-insignificance.One person sais: “I know!”Another person, not confident enough to challenge it, sais: “OK, you know better” .How about “I don’t know, I am working on it”, "I know only this much". Also if something interests you don’t leave your “I do not know” to others to tell you. It will turn out to blind leading blind.Learn to seek answers in the library of wisdom by asking, by thinking, by trusting that your answers will come.
And they will! March 31, 2014 The consciousness, the spirit, the soul... It is urgent for humanity to understand that there are free and endless resources for us to draw from, even though reprograming the ego accordingly will require an incredible effort, we must do it now. Drawing sufficient conclusions from insufficient premises – that’s intelligence. Recorded conclusions, stored in the consciousness, non-local library, that we can access any time, any place - that’s the wisdom.Drawing new conclusions from old premises, expressed with beauty and love in mind - that’s a creativity. Every single manifestation of our presence is recorded, cataloged and archived - that’s the soul. We can also access our own soul, our private record keeper, at any time, any place. Other people’s souls we shall only access with their permission.We can also access souls of nations, of times past and present, we can access it all,as long as we do not trespass freedom of others.The love, the essence of our awareness, expressed by giving and a benign state of mind that generates energy (when we have a generator, the brain) – that’s god within. Free, unlimited access to all energy of the Universe – that’s the spirit . Laboriously transforming a matter to harvest a pathetic amount of energy,polluting and destroying a balance of our environment is an exemplification of how little we know about the energy, true self, the Universe, and the grip of the ego.
January 24, 2014 Asking the right questions I know for years, most likely as many other people, that we have an access to all knowledge that ever was, is, and will be, just by asking the right questions, the answers are provided.
The knowledge comes in form of thoughts or experiences and is always self-explanatory. Not only needs to be shared on the web, but it needs to appear in the main stream teachings about our Universe.I wrote an article on my website in Spring 2012 (see below) about our DNAs as re-writable CDs.I know that to look at them physically in order to gather an understanding about the difference between species is the same mistake as looking for the memory in the formation of a brain. Memory will never show any significant difference between the physical brains, the same as the downloaded programs will never show any significant difference between one hard drive and another. The physical DNAs are re-writable CDs. The difference is in the music.CDs look the same until you play it. The lack of a physical difference doesn't mean that we are the same species or so greatly related! We have to learn how to play CDs of DNA.
April 3, 2014 Ego needs a brain, Ai doesn't. The importance of knowing that you are the authentic, timeless being and shifting your identity from the ego programming to the authentic,becomes the most obvious when you observe people with dementia or Alzheimer disease. Installed programs, called ego show us how the outside world works, although, often the read of the world is seriously distorted, they still give us a navigation map for the maze of life. Authentic suppose to chose the route. Ego not suppose to form and replace our identity and make decisions, but create a competence, a swift, familiar functioning in the world. Authentic suppose to be your conscious identity.Ego needs a brain. Comes with it and will be gone with it.The mind of authentic needs no brain to know. That’s a personally experienced fact.Give it a handful of brain cells and it can perform miracles. When you shift your identity from the ego to Ai (Authentic identity) then the abnormal structures called plaques and tangles, prime suspects in damaging and killing nerve cells,have nothing on you! It would take long time and a lot of killing to take down your 20 billion cells... (100 billion supposedly is a myth and I am not going to start counting))Remember, a normal size or full functioning of the brain is not essential to understanding the world, and living a full life.http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn12301-man-with-tiny-brain-shocks-doctors.html#.UzyOA1cvmls
July 24, 2015 Emotions are not part of love. The most important piece of wisdom about the difference between feelings and emotions I can offer you at this moment (tomorrow another one might come) is… that in any emotional state you draw energy from the Universal Creative Mind – Light and you give it to the Universal Destructive Mind - darkness.You are becoming an energetic liability.You cannot create, you cannot live in abundance, and you cannot be sovereign.You are part of the collective mind of darkness, manipulated by the forces with no good intentions towards you, nor other beings of this Universe.On the other hand in the state of feelings you generate energy. You are never liability – you are an asset. You are sovereign, you create, you live in abundance, and you are untouchable by the darkness.If you are on a spiritual path (wisdom, truth, love, goodness) you are setting yourself back when you get into a state of emotions, even for a brief time.You will recognize that you shifted your assets from authentic to ego. Some transfer assets and spend them until they bankrupt and blame othersfor pulling them into the darkness / emotional world. Nope, you are responsible for it all!The most dangerous play with an emotional world is to create an energetic openness to an intimate partner, assuming that he/she is equally benign,only to find out that they are attacking you emotionally. By being moody, critical, ridiculing you, condescending, deceitful, your partner, using an open door to your energetic field - the love of equal, will begin draining your energy.When you recognize that your partner is taking your energy you normally start a defense to stop that.Every attempt to close the energetic door fails.Angry you try to throw him/her out of your heart / love / energetic field, but soon you lose the anger, (emotions are short lived), start forgiveness and she is back in your field.And you keep struggling usually with huge loses of energy only to find out that you have no strength left, you become hopeless and broke. Why because it is not true that you can outlive your love. You must learn that love doesn't mean relationship.To love and yet give up on the idea of relationship is a hardest thing to do!How many times I see the union based on love and hope, yet between unequal that inevitably ends with an energetic and usually a financial bankruptcy of the one who loved and hoped.Why?Watch emotions. The one who lives in the drama of their emotional mind will drain the other dry.How can you change the dynamism?Telling them to stop seems hopeless, because the never do, maybe for a short time but not for good.What to do?Once you open your energy with the intention to love and create partnership it feels like goose is cocked!So what is the solution?Well, unplug your emotions. So hard to do! Yet, you invited this particular partner to learn exactly that!Even if you are provoked many times a day, go to feelings of care, love, neutrality and understanding the pain of the spouse,who is fighting his emotional demons. Without the sparring partner on the emotional arena the world of emotions will be replaced by feelings of love and joy.
June 21, 2018 Did anyone teach you that feelings are not emotions?
So important! Feelings are the states of the timeless mind - the awareness of own being and all what comes from it:1. feeling the truth in all contexts2. knowing the law of the universe.3. feeling love (not falling in love)4. feeling interested (not anxious) 5. intuiting —intentions of the living beings6. feeling own and other beings presence 7. feeling the brightness of light in others8. connection with others, people, animals, plants, telepathyFeelings at times feel as if they would be outside of the body, where the body is peaceful, unusually peaceful.
November 05, 2017 The Universe-mind has no wrong force. The Universe-body is full of wrong forces The years of conversations and contemplations of sorting out lives, left me with a sizable codex of outgrown truths. The learning what is true never ends. The old truths do not vanish. As if navigated by a master of confusion, even though its context gets smaller and they lose relevance, they look for the way back to human minds to gain power and grow bigger. What’s the point of that!?The point is to TAKE. By the confusion and deception, minds of darkness, that have no direct access to the source of energy – the light, give us the shove towards poring energy in the wrong force in the universe. The Universe–mind has no wrong force. The Universe–body is full of wrong forces. Make sure that, while you are looking for truth, you don’t feed the darkness in you by following the thoughts of darkness, or on others by speaking and lacing it with emotions. All emotions can be turn into feelings. In the next post. I will tell you how.
February 19, 2015 Unpredictable doesn't mean Unreliable Predictability comes from routines, habits, rigidity, sameness. Predictability is a stagnation of the mind, caused by social conditioning/programing for the purpose of control of lives of citizens.It is accomplished by instilling the fear of judgment of others and consequently a fear of social rejection. Advancing the words like “ordinary” and “average” to a rank of superlative, allows millions of people to become a human filler, not an active ingredient of social evolution.Inability to examine agreed upon ways of living, fueled by a desire to belong, to matter, and a fear of not fitting, only grows with age. Glorified stories about mom and dad, told by 80 years olds, is to justify their life-long laziness of thought and lack of courage to be different, that left their inherited conditioning unchallenged.As if all was working so well, they carried on the same way. If it’s not broken, don’t fix it. They also impose on children their stale, predictable modus vivendi with pride of superiority and frown upon any sign of deviation from their predictable middle-of-the-herd position. They usually ruin their children’s lives, by denying them choices, experiences, individuality, creativity, the freedom to be different. Reliability comes from an understanding and living by the universal values, that are based on truth in all, or at least in wide contexts. Universal values are rooted in love and have nothing to do with social values and norms, because they represent an interest of an individual human, not a strength of the cement that holds people glued together and dependent on handouts of rulers of the society.Reliability is an earned by evolution (on own merit) a strength, a presence of the timeless being visible from the moment the child is born and intuited by some parents way before they see the kicking baby.Those who used their many lives to create own evolution are the contributors and creators of the evolution of humanity. When people come to me for help I see if they are predictable or reliable.
One basic test is that the reliable people understand universal values.
May 13th, 2020 Borders are closed Borders are closed and I am "stuck" in paradise – Costa Rica. Nothing to complain about... except for this one obvious thing, not being able to leave, to travel abroad.It might sound like a small inconvenience for a person who travels abroad only as a tourist, and to whom it is a leisurely luxury. For a person who grew up in communist Poland not to be able to travel freely abroad is not a novel idea.The circumstances are new, the reasons for travelling restrictions are new, but creating a life within your own or any external limitations you are born to, is a piece of cake. Everyone is doing it. We all live in a limited reality, created by us, or by others for us (more like against us). List of limits we are born to, imposed on us by nature and people, can be very long, and I spent my life to free my mind from the traps of those limitations. I also created way in my professional life to teach people the freedom from mind traps of an internal ego-slavery.When you learn to change your feelings and emotions, your view on your life circumstances will change and vice versa. We all know the saying “you change your mind, you change your life”... until they close the border on you.When you are "not aloud" to leave the country, the paradise will look less joyous. You can keep changing your mind until nothing left, but the borders can still be closed.I have to remind myself every few days that I am going nowhere for a while. It feels like I am in heaven and waiting for my next incarnation. Itching to experience life, be back on Earth and feel life.But my future parents are messing up my plan; either are not getting together, having abortions, or creating some other human mess that will keep me in heaven.Others are telling me “you are in heaven”, “you are in paradise”, true.For a person who travels abroad only as a tourist, but his full life is growing where he is, closed borders mean a change of plans for a few weeks in the winter. Not for me. My full life is growing where I can deliver my work to the hands of another traveler.So, I have shit to do, plans are drawn, energy generated to create the next mille of the road, and all that will fade away if I will not keep the intentions going.How do I do it? By listening to the demand. By you asking me for a word of encouragement, because your energy is also fading away. So, in advance, here it is: Stay well in the light - by giving thanks for all what you have now.
July 19, 2014 Courage. “The greatest glory in living, lies not in never falling, but in rising every time you fall” - Nelson Mandela.I would say there is not always the greatest glory. Bill Clinton is a one example. Let’s skip the glory concept, it is just life. If it is lived as designed by the timeless you, it needs to be lived with the courage. The steps that do not follow traditions, religions, social and familial directives (which keep you locked if not enslaved), will lead you to experiences, where you will be amazed by your own power and abilities. Where your courage to lead life, that at times makes no sense even to you, will serve as an example to many, who were taught to be afraid.Where your choices based on the trust in intelligence and support of the Universe will become an inspiration to those, who don’t have a courage to step out of their place in the middle of the pack. Remember, if your life becomes a proof of the presence of the intelligence and support of the Universe, the proof is only good for you. Discourage others to settle for knowing and believing in your proof. It is a trap for both; you and them. That’s how all religions started. People settled for someone else’s experiences, even though they supposed to do the same or even better. They said “Nah, I will sit in a pew and listen to somebody else’s amazing life – over and over again, that will be enough for me”.If you are leading an amazing life, you better add to it a work of a teacher who guides others to their own courageous experiences. Then fly besides them for a bit (no judgment how long!), like papa eagle, they all will learn to fly, whenever they are ready.There is nothing more toxic in the parenting your children than replacing their innate courage and trust with a fear and predictability.You will live a very small life, when you give in to the fear of the unknown.
February 26, 2014 All what I write here are my conclusions from experiencing my life. Sometimes my individual life, sometimes our collective life.The grasp that comes to me directly at the time of the experiencing, and evolves after an experience, depends on an amount of questions I am askeding about it.I use to search for my understanding in explanations of other teachers, but there was always something not completely true...Was I a picky student, over critical and never satisfied?What was not completely true, that the described experiences were not really like mine, and the choices of experiencer's conclusions were not like I would see and understand it. That’s why we are individuals.Not “undivided” as some Gurus are dogmatizing, but” in division” with freedom to chose, and then pour into collective; some as data, some as wisdom. THE ONE MIND, that we are - only ”in division” can have freedom to chose experiences and create own conclusions in eight billion ways!
May 7, 2014 Your life has all. You are born to have your independent, inexhaustible power.
You are plugged to the Universe of Power. You are lied to by those, who want your power to serve them and to make them look powerful.You are born to be in a perfect balance of energy.
You are plugged to the energy that fuels the Universe. You are lied to by those, who want you to feel weak and depend on the scraps of the energy they produce. You are born to be in a perfect health. You are lied to by so-called-health care and systematically being poisoned by the food “industry”.You are lied to by those, who want you to feel sick and depend on the Band-Aid solutions and pills they produce. Don’t give your power away. Learn how to harvest the energy from the Universe.Stay healthy by being responsible for an every drink you take and every piece of food you eat.Do not serve the liars your life on a platter.Without your agreement no one has power over your life.
World accordingly to ego
God gave a partyAnd no one cameGod gave the understandingAnd no one changedGod gave spiritAnd no one caredGod gave loveBut no one sharedGod gave happinessAnd everyone criedGod gave lifeAnd everyone died.
World accordingly to Authentic you
God gave a partyAnd everyone came!God gave the understandingFor everyone to learnGod gave spiritFor everyone to careGod gave loveFor everyone to shareGod gave happinessFor everyone... a lot!God gave you life And you never forgot.
